Understanding the Beneficiary’s Role

  • Lessons

    9

  • Duration

    2 Hours

Instructors

Kirby Rosplock

Kirby Rosplock (Ph.D.)

Born into a very successful enterprising family, Kirby learned family wealth basics the way most affluent offspring do (or don’t) Read More

About Course

Understanding the Beneficiary’s Role introduces the four “M’s” that inspire beneficiary stewardship. This course helps bridge the goals, motivations, and intentions of the grantor with those of the beneficiary to help both parties garner alignment, appreciation, and understanding. Read More

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Overview

  • Learning Objectives

    2 Minutes

The Four M's That Inspire a Beneficiary

  • Meaning

    20 Minutes
  • Homework I - Discovering Your Values

    30 Minutes
  • Modeling Responsible Beneficiary Behavior

    6 Minutes
  • Mentoring

    27 Minutes
  • Homework II - Families as a Cross-Generational Learning Community

    30 Minutes
  • Motivations

    22 Minutes
  • Beneficiary Primer

    6 Minutes

Conclusion

  • Wrap Up

    30 Seconds

Test Your Knowledge

  • Quiz Locked

What does it mean to be a beneficiary beyond just receiving assets?

How do you make sense of the purpose, values, and expectations behind what’s been entrusted to you?

Understanding the Beneficiary’s Role (formerly Beneficiary Fundamentals Module 1) helps you understand the “why” behind your role as a beneficiary. You’ll explore the meaning and values connected to wealth, how your motivations and influences shape your decisions, and how role models and mentors impact your development. It’s designed to help you move from uncertainty or assumption toward a clearer, more personal understanding of your role.

What You’ll Be Able to Do on the Other Side

  • Understand the difference between "values and valuables" and why that matters
  • Describe the purpose behind your trust in simple, personal terms
  • Recognize the people and experiences shaping how you think about wealth
  • Identify a mentor or role model worth learning from (and why)
  • Ask more grounded questions about expectations and your role
  • Start forming your own point of view on what being a beneficiary means

The Experience

This module brings together a curated set of resources so you can explore how meaning, values, and behavior connect in real life. You’ll engage with selected perspectives from voices like Dennis Jaffe (Borrowed from Your Grandchildren), alongside podcasts from experts such as Dr. Jim Grubman, Dr. Paul Edelman, and the Innerwill Leadership Institute.

Along the way, you will complete a values exercise and work through reflection prompts designed to help you connect these ideas to your own life. The experience is designed to build awareness, clarify what matters to you, and help you begin shaping your role with more intention.

Featured Resources:

     Videos

  • Podcast with Dr. Jim Grubman entitled, Meaning and Wealth and Its Connection to the Beneficiary
  • Podcast with Dr. Paul Edelman entitled, Mentoring the Rising Gen
  • Podcast with Betsey Fortlouis entitled, Exploring Value-Based Leadership
  • Podcast with Chelsey Toler entitled, Collaboration, Communication, and Onramps for NxG Family Members
  • Podcast with Patricia M. Angus entitled, The Beneficiary Primer

     Articles/Books

  • "Discovering Your Core Values" by the Innerwill Institute
  • Chapter 14, Borrowed from Your Grandchildren by Dr. Dennis Jaffe
  • "Ten Facts Every Trust Beneficiary Should Know" by Patricia M. Angus

Customers Review

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Shannon H.
Jul 07, 2026
I thought the Discovering Values, Modeling, and Beneficiary Primer were really good.
Susan G.
Mar 14, 2026
I enjoyed reviewing trust basics. I enjoy the podcasts
Celine F.
Sep 17, 2024
The Primer handout was not downloadable and harder read without the option
Bruce S.
Jul 31, 2022
Very well presented and informative.
Lee M.
Jan 13, 2022
This course is speaking to me so loud and clear. I'm not overwhelmed, especially as I get what feels like direct access to people like Jaffe and Grubman. I'll be spreading the word about this course!
Daniella U.
Jul 26, 2021
This is one of my favorite modules! The 4 M's meaning, modeling, mentoring, and motivation and are the foundation of a strong Steward.